Heal from Incest, Abuse, and Rape

                                         "Oh sir, she smiled, no doubt,

                                                 Whene’er I passed her; but who passed without

                                                 Much the same smile?

                                                 This grew; I gave commands;

                                                 Then all smiles stopped together.

                                                 There she stands

                                                 As if alive."  ―Robert Browning

                      Every April is SAAM: SEXUAL ASSAULT AWARENESS MONTH

Be observant if your child's behavior suddenly changes, displaying emotional outbursts, silence, bedwetting, or out-of-the-ordinary disturbances. Incest is an ongoing problem needing attention to stop its occurrence.


Rape too often goes unreported because the victim cannot speak about the horrific attack until months or years later. Again, be aware of a friend or family member suffering and attempt to gain their trust and offer to help.


If you are the person who was maligned, you did not cause someone to assault you. There is no excuse for their actions. Seek assistance and comfort to take the necessary steps to help yourself to heal.


Healing addresses the body, mind, and soul. There are in-depth processes to alleviate your pain and create your life anew. In the United States, someone is sexually assaulted every 92 seconds. This statistic needs to end.

Past-life contracts affect what you will experience now.  When abuse occurs repeatedly, it may indicate that your past lives are affecting this lifetime.

 

You do not have to settle for one challenge after another. You can release yourself from the prior lifetime agreements you entered that are now causing pain. Write a new script for your life!

 

Ending negative karmic contracts has life-altering effects. We will meet with the same soul

or a similar type of person to learn, which can be challenging or rewarding.

Freeing yourself and others from past life entanglements opens possibilities for happiness.

Every creature in nature knows to self-soothe and fights only for food, a mate, or to protect 

itself or family. Man fights for seemingly no reason at all but to torture. Look to nature to heal.

I have used my proven gifts of clairvoyance and mediumship to counsel thousands and help them

rid themselves of the toxic energy left by attackers. For many years I have been teaching Meditation, and I was a guest speaker at Mensa International. When we intentionally use our thoughts to manifest positively, the results are rewarding.

 

Every 92 seconds, someone in the United States is sexually assaulted. This grave statistic must change. By not allowing the subject of abuse to be hidden, the predators cannot hide.

Incest, as my mother was told when I was a young child, was commonplace. Today, in 2021, sexual assault is still a ruthless and rampant crime. Neglect, slander, betrayal, all of these are insidious forms of abuse that we must not tolerate nor have a partnership.

Never give anyone who injured you the power to determine your value or future. You would not be the first person to have a loved one betray your trust.  The actions of abusers reveal their angst and damaged selves. No matter what someone says in their defense, you did not drive them to beat, rape, or maim you.  Narcissists with superiority complexes are cunning liars. If you are irritating anyone, they can leave. They do not have the right to injure you.

Sexual intimacy has nothing to do with the act of rape. Rape results from a person out of control taking over another person's physical body for a time. The freedom of the target is not a concern for the rapist, for it is about them gaining control over another living being. Humanity does not enter into the mind of the rapist. He or she is not in touch with their humanity, sanity, or spirituality. 

 

While the victim might feel afterward as if their life will never be whole again, this does not have to remain the result. Yes, it is painful, but you must get up and walk out when you are in hell! If you are in a bad marriage, job, or living with an abusive family, you owe it to yourself to seek help and support for your situation.

Walking at night as a teen, I thought the abuse and rape I endured was a punishment from the universe.  When I was a child or an adult, I could not imagine what I could have done to bring such horror into my life.

After years of reflection, looking at my past-life contracts, and releasing all that needed to be transmuted and transformed, I changed my life, the people I chose, and my experiences. I came to feel that if anything positive came from my suffering, it had to include helping others move beyond the pain of their past.

Only when you are ready will you find someone to guide you out of the darkness and into the light of a new day. Prayer, Meditation, talk therapy, and -- or -- looking into past lives and how the associations in this life came to be will forever change how you thought about everything.

HAPPY NEW YEAR is not a calendar event; it is a life choice. HAPPY NEW YEAR is you decreeing and declaring that you are the one who determines your happiness, not another.

HAPPY NEW YEAR ....... Let it begin now.

The caterpillar who became the butterfly can be a metaphor for your life starting over.

You are entitled to soar and reap all the beauty this world has to offer​.​

  • Another's actions are about them and their choices. If an infant's cries result in an adult suffocating them to stifle their noise, the baby cannot be blamed.

  • Everything has an energetic component. Release the abuser's negative energy and redirect it into the Divine Light to be eradicated, so it is out of your mind, body, and soul.

  • You deserve all the good life has to offer. You will attract caring people once you know your value.

  • If someone tells you that you are too sensitive or stop talking and do as you are told — These are red flags you must not ignore.

  •  God is neither a religion nor a personality. God is Love, Light, Intelligence, Energy, Sound and is accessible to you. You might say Higher Power or Universal Intelligence if that is more to your liking than the word God. All that matters is you know you are loved.

  • We are not being punished. We are being taught. We asked to be in this life and on this planet, meeting the people we will learn from and teach.

           "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."

                 ― Max Planck

 

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